Dance Method2(Let her initiate the increase in touching)

Some ladies will want to increase the intensity between the two of you by allowing touching of certain body parts. In almost all circumstances, it is only acceptable for the female to initiate the increase. She will usually do this by grabbing your hand and placing it somewhere over herself.

Don't pinch or otherwise make fast and childish grabs at her. You'll destroy whatever chemistry there was between the two of you. Play it safe and follow her lead until you're perfectly clear on what she wants.